Mutable Favors
Tomatoes offered freely, seedlings shared without tally—these small exchanges demonstrate how gardens build trust beyond strict accounting. Hesitation gives way to inclusion through unspoken agreements where debts aren't settled so much as remembered; a sense of obligation lingers not as a precise measure but a feeling for relative need over time. This process shifts ethics from rigid codes toward provisional commitments, accepting that connection itself carries a cost and demands constant renegotiation.